“We Just Want Our Parents Back”
Published June 17, 2009 @ 09:00AM PT
Via Greg Siskind, NBC’s Today Show had a great piece recently on how families are suffering in the face of congressional inaction on immigration reform.
Predictably, a restrictionist pundit tied to John Tanton’s nativist network gets some airtime, though not much. Steven Camarota of the Center for Immigration Studies (CIS) isn’t impressed by tearful junior high students who want to be able to live with both their parents:
If you grant widespread amnesty, then you make everybody who has played by the rules, who’ve waited their turn, and done what they’re supposed to, you make all those people look like fools and dupes for following the rules.
Actually, there are two sets of rules: one set for people from wealthy countries--predominantly white, predominantly European--and one set for everybody else.
People like Jasmine’s mother now pay the price for not wanting to miss their daughters’ childhood.
For many others, there is no “line” to wait in at all.
Also, as reporter Carl Quintanilla notes but you’ll never hear from CIS, the rules have changed a lot in the last 20 years. Restrictionists have been very effective in their lobbying efforts to make the laws work against families instead of in their favor, in particular with the catastrophic 1996 law signed by President Clinton: IIRIRA. With IIRIRA, the ground shifted beneath the feet of countless immigrants and their families.
IIRIRA instituted an inflexible time limit for applying for asylum, screening out thousands with valid claims. It made harsh immigration consequences for criminal convictions retroactive, leading to surprise deportations for thousands of longtime permanent residents who thought their debt to society had been paid years ago. It raised the standard for hardship to U.S. citizen or permanent resident family members as a defense against deportation to new and ridiculous heights. It created a new penalty specifically designed to permanently separate families, the “unlawful presence” bar.
This came from politicians who looked their constituents in the eye and claimed to be pro-family. As it turns out, some are pro-family, as long as your family was all born in the U.S.
Fixing these policies that destroy families has hardly been discussed as part of any comprehensive immigration reform—rather, the administration and much of Congress has bought into soulless, poll-tested framing of immigration reform as an enforcement plan, a national security issue. That is a component of immigration law, but border security is already built into the system and tends to drown out all other issues.
Jasmine pleads: “It’s been four years of my family being apart, and I want that to end.”
People like Steven Camarota will tell kids like Leslie and Jasmine, who are U.S. citizens and have lived their entire lives in the U.S., to go live in Mexico if they love their families. Others will lay the blame at the feet of parents who aspired to give their children a better life than they themselves had. Some of my commenters routinely make these arguments. I hope that the majority of the voting public can see the moral bankruptcy of those positions. I am happy to see more and more news pieces like this one making their way onto the airwaves and internet.
Meanwhile, mixed-status families like Jasmine’s and Leslie’s wait for Congress and the President to acknowledge that their votes, that their lives matter.
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This is why HR 182, the Child Citizen Protection Act is so important. Judges need to have the discretion to decide in the "best interests" of the children when determining whether or not to deport a parent. Deportation forces many families into poverty that might otherwise live middle class lives. Deporting bread winners can often leave spouses and children in the situation of joining the welfare system and contributes to poverty in the 'home country'. Keeping families together is not just good for the families and the children, but is also good for the economy!
Posted by Betsy DeWitt on 06/17/2009 @ 10:45AM PT
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To learn more about HR 182, the CHILD CITIZEN PROTECTION ACT, visit us at www.familiesforfreedom.org
Posted by Betsy DeWitt on 06/17/2009 @ 10:50AM PT
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Great comments, Betsy! I have contacted my representatives to support HR 182, the Child Citizen Protection Act, and I urge others to do the same.
Posted by a d on 06/17/2009 @ 07:38PM PT
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Would someone please explain to me how the word "restrictionist" applies to those who honor and respect our immigration laws and quotas that were implemented by our government but not they themselves?
Ever heard of the term "there is no more room at the inn"? Lines form to enter many places but once all the seats/places are taken there is no line to get into anymore but that does that mean make your own line and crash the inn anyway?
Posted by Mark Lindley on 06/17/2009 @ 11:33AM PT
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Mark - Funny you bring up the religious image of "no room in the inn," because the recent videos I've seen and articles I've read about ICE raids ripping parents away from their children has made me draw a parallel to Judas (you know, the apostle who betrayed Jesus). They come sneaking up on the undocumented immigrants in the middle of the night, asleep, arrest them, and remove them from their families and society. But what is even funnier is that cities typically post a sign, usually in a borderline neighborhood and under a highway bridge, saying "Labor Pick-Up." Cities spend money to have these signs made. That means they know that undocumented immigrants are living here and come here to work. All government decisions, no? The majority of us have probably read at least a headline, or news article, or seen a news segment about a public figure who "accidentally" hired an undocumented nanny, maid, landscaper, etc, and didn't pay taxes associated with the service. Ahh the convenience of a dollar well saved. Meanwhile, you have teenagers like Jasmine, a nineteen year old, raising her younger siblings, going to school, working, paying the rent, the bills, and taxes because her parents were deported.
By the way, you never got back to my question on the other story about kids who are detained. You made a reference to a child who was over 21 but didn't follow-up on the sleuthing you did to uncover the details.
Posted by Michelina Docimo on 06/17/2009 @ 08:17PM PT
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Michelina you are right when you said do the right think for people in life and hopefully all these efforts will pay off with humane reform and justice for immigrants rights.
At my meeting my friend Nicki brought me a copy of the Voices of the Disappeared: put together by the NJ Civil Rights Defense Committee.
Here is a poem written by an English Detainee that I would like to share with everyone here:
Oh Lord I Plead
Trying to be a part of this nation
For what the wicked done to us
This government is so unjust
(WHY)
In a jail cell I sit
And ask myself why
Do broken spirit die
The voice of my son cry
Daddy why why Daddy why
(WHY)
Being from a foreign land
Trying to be a part of this nation
But instead I am in prison
Fighting deportation for my freedom
(WHY)
Oh Government, why judge
If your constitutional rights are not guaranteed
Your plan is to segregate
Us detainee from our family immediately
(WHY)
Oh Lord I plead
And you show mercy on we
Thank you for the NJ Civil Rights Defense
Committee for doing justice
By helping us immigrants, the detainees
(O Lord I plead)
Posted by Mary Pranzatelli on 06/17/2009 @ 10:27PM PT
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#1, close the damn borders already... idk who opened them (Reagan?)... and do w.e can be done to stop the exploitation of people in other countries... then people are gonna stop coming as much. Economic instability is why many legal and illegal people come here. Everything else is family unity and prosecution.
If everyone was stable in their own country, then they wouldnt take the troubled route to come here.
and im tired of hearing legal residents brag about how good they were back in their home country, how good of jobs they had; high positions in the government etc. and telling me how difficult the U.S is, how its soo much stress. im like "go home if you wanna brag about the country you came from"...
secure the borders first, halt ceratin deportations for people who may be deemed qualified by some kind of immigration law in the future... so we dont have this problem every 10 years.
and stop with the "we're full" argument... this country has been saying its full for years... when we're outside the door we say "its not full"... but once we get our foot inside the door; oops "its full"...
give people the confidence that the borders are secure and that any feuture CIR law would be implemented... otherwise we can all do this for years.
i've herd your arguments Mark, I've herd everyone else's too.. i know were every stands on the issue by now... God if we can just see some articles without comment section; its getting anoying, same talk over and over again. no wonder many people who used to comment; have left.
Posted by Alex Shqipe on 06/17/2009 @ 12:33PM PT
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'do w.e can be done to stop the exploitation of people in other countries... then people are gonna stop coming as much. Economic instability is why many legal and illegal people come here.'
EXACTLY and THANK YOU. That's what we're all saying.
but I don't think that's going to happen as long as NAFTA and companies like Wal Mart and Nike exist on this planet.
Posted by Jizzle Shizzle on 06/18/2009 @ 02:01AM PT
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Despite all these drawbacks enumerated (and there were a while bunch) the US still has by far the mosre liberal immigration system on the planet. his is ruly amazing.
Posted by Wire Paladin on 06/17/2009 @ 02:59PM PT
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there are two sets of rules: one set for people from wealthy countries--predominantly white, predominantly European--and one set for everybody else.
not true. One set for wealthy people; another for the poor, regardless of country of allegiance. The Mexican elite jetset into Aspen just as easily as Russian mobsters, Saudi sheiks, and British Royalty. Foreigners aren't discriminated so much by the color of their skins, as by the color of their money.
Posted by Kurt Thialfad on 06/17/2009 @ 04:58PM PT
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Michelina, as I already told you I will not discuss any issues with you and two other femles in this blog anymore since you all resorted to personal attacks over and over.
ICE goes after all illegal immigrants not just certain ones. That is their job! Just like law enforcement has to go after all citizen law violaters not just those without families. Having a family does not exclude anyone from the long arm of the law nor should it.
It was Liquid Reign who posted the complete story about the 21 year old who got deported. His/her post got deleted in here though. I was able to read it though because I subscribed to that topic and it came to me through my e-mail. I have since deleted it so if you want to know the story ask him/her. I don't recall all the details but it sure cleared up what the article left out.
I appreciate your attempt at civility in this last post but I don't trust that you will continue to be that way so perhaps it would be better if you didn't address me anymore because I don't plan on responding to you after this, just clearing some things up. I don't want fights breaking out in here. I only want to discuss issues with civility and without personal attacks just because I have a different view of things.
Posted by Mark Lindley on 06/18/2009 @ 07:43AM PT
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I was expecting this response. Thank you.
Posted by Michelina Docimo on 06/18/2009 @ 08:12AM PT
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(so perhaps it would be better if you didn't address me anymore because I don't plan on responding to you after this, just clearing some things up)
Michelina, He wrote the same exact thing to me. His continous rhetoric is extremely predictiable and very cold when it comes to the splitting up of familys.
I just saw a film on how the ACLU fought a private detention prison in Texas that had detained little children and their mom's that came to our country because they ran from husbands that beat them. One of the woman had scares on her face and told a story about her husband who asked her to drink poison and told her he would be-head her with a machite.
She fled to our country and found herself and her children in the strick Texas detention system.
Here are a few of the retrictions.
*If the child (Some 3 year olds) cried because they felt anxiety's from not seeing daylight or stress from the retriction they would separate the child from the mother in different quarters.
*Mealtimes were retricted to 15 minutes in length. Mothers usually left without eating because they could not feed their children in that length of time.
*Children rarely saw daylight.
*Lights were out at a certain time and the detained were not allowed to move about freely on the premises.
There were many more retrictions but these detainees were treated like as if they committed hard felonys.
Retrictionists have cold comments that come out of their mouths like one woman in a hearing said: "Sometimes little children must suffer for the crimes of their parent".
I keep on thinking what kind of a normal human being would make a comment like that! Children suffer! Crimes of what!...the women came from situations were they were being beaten and their lives were at risk. Sometimes I think we are being too polite to these people because they have absolutely no values.
Any woman who would deny these woman have no respect for woman or themselves and any man that would deny these woman the right to freedom is certainly not a gentleman or quality man.
Posted by Mary Pranzatelli on 06/19/2009 @ 06:26PM PT
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This is what happens when our detention system becomes a private industry profit organization. They said that the government paid up to 200 dollars a day to keep some of these kids detained. The food the feed them looked so gross and the one poor little girl they interviewed looked so depressed. It was so sad that people were crying in the church where the film was viewed. When one of the little girls was finally released she talked about the thinks she loved most in this country. She said she liked going to Mcdonalds with her mom. Also, they had some of the children draw pictures and people were crying when they showed some of the pictures they drew with broken hearts and pictures of children with bars over them. It is so sad...and I can not understand how anyone who is a part of it can sleep at night after what they have done.
*This is what happens when a system is left in our country without checks and balances.
Posted by Mary Pranzatelli on 06/19/2009 @ 06:47PM PT
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I know, I remember the comment. And I know a frog feigning chivalry when I hear it croak. Finally, you would think, a topic that both parties would agree on - the sacredness of family as the foundation of society. We are damaging future American generations by allowing children to be denied basic necessities to grow in a healthy environment. Not just the undocumented children but the American children as well. Children are sponges - they absorb sights, sounds, emotions. They imitate their parents' actions and look to them as role models. By proliferating a double standard of which child receives basic rights, we are teaching our American children that they are superior over others because of birth right. Regardless of whether we are parents or not, we are responsible for promoting a strong support system for children. People cast off responsibility of parenting to the "biological" parents or adopted parents. Why, because it is the biggest sacrifice a person can make. We are wrong to do this if we truly believe it takes a village to raise a child. Politicians, celebrities, public figures push and push and push family, family, family. Are they listening to these little voices? And one doesn't have to show their support for children by actually letting them into their home or giving donations. I'm not saying you have to live the life of Mother Teresa. One can show support by how one thinks. And by even posting comments like "no room in the inn" shows a complete block to human compassion. Want to create some positive change - think and speak positively.
Posted by Michelina Docimo on 06/19/2009 @ 07:37PM PT
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(We are damaging future American generations by allowing children to be denied basic necessities to grow in a healthy environment. Not just the undocumented children but the American children as well. Children are sponges.)
You are right on with that Michelina! and I think so much damage has already been done but it is never too late to change. There is a movement out there and it is growing. When I go to my group the people that are mobilized are from all different backgrounds and that includes that the majority of them happen to be US citizens that have compassion on the issue.
I have an immigration prayer I found in the reformed church on a flyer made when I meet with another group called IRATE and First Friends before the film was child detention film was shown to share with everyone tonight before I go to sleep. The members of this church and their prayer are so kind in nature. They are listed as firstfriends2@juno.com
*A Prayer for Immigration Justice*
Blessed are You, Lord God, King of all creation.
Through Your goodness, we live in this land that You have so richly blessed.
Help us always to recognize our Blessings come from You
And remind us to share them with others, especially those who come to us today from other lands.
Help us to be generous, just, And welcoming, as You have been and are generous to us.
Posted by Mary Pranzatelli on 06/19/2009 @ 08:11PM PT
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Ooops! this is the website that works. go to www.irateweb.org this is a fairly new group that has formed.
Posted by Mary Pranzatelli on 06/19/2009 @ 08:18PM PT
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