Appeal to Obama: Don't Break Up Our Families
Published November 17, 2008 @ 05:44AM PT
A group of families met in Chicago over the weekend with an urgent appeal for the new president-elect.
CHICAGO, Nov. 15 -- The people were of different nationalities and backgrounds, but they had a common refrain: Don't split up our families.
The 300-plus people who attended the meeting Saturday at St. Pius Church in the Pilsen neighborhood were sending a reminder to President-elect Barack Obama to keep his promise to address immigration reform.
"I expect Barack Obama, our engine for change, will do everything he can to keep his promise for comprehensive immigration reform that reunites families who are already separated and keeps families together," said Rep. Luis V. Gutierrez (D), who called the meeting and who in the next Congress will reintroduce immigration legislation he co-sponsored last year.
Chicago, Obama's home, has in recent years been at the forefront of the battle over immigration. The wave of massive marches for immigrant rights in 2006 started here, and Chicago groups -- including the grass-roots organization La Familia Latina Unida -- have for several years taken the lead nationally on "mixed-status" families.
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The Aguirre and Pulido families that gathered in a Mexican restaurant after sharing their stories at St. Pius are among the nearly 2 million families in the United States with at least one undocumented parent and children who are U.S. citizens.
Ana Pulido's husband came to the United States from Guadalajara, Mexico, at age 15. Ana is a U.S. citizen, and their three sons were born here. Pulido's husband, 35, went to Mexico in 1998 when his father was on his deathbed. He returned to the United States using his nephew's identity, was deported, then returned illegally again. He has a pending deportation order and fears that agents might show up at his home any day.
"I have two choices: divorce him or bring the whole family to Mexico," said Pulido, 31, a real estate agent, who fears that her mother also might be deported. "When you've been married to the same man for years, that's a hard choice."
Some may ask why didn't these families anticipate these hard choices beforehand; why are they asking for a 'free pass' now?
Many of these families and individuals have faced a series of hard choices that led them to this point. For some, the laws changed under their feet, adding immigration consequences that didn't previously exist, or removing paths to citizenship that did. Others felt they had no choice, they needed to work towards a brighter future by coming to this country. And who you fall in love with is not always easy to predict or control.
Not all mixed-status families involve people from Latin America.
Brian Wilkins, 31, is married to a Bulgarian woman, 26, who was ordered to leave the country after her father's application for permanent residency was denied. Wilkins, who met his wife while selling merchandise on a Britney Spears concert tour, is selling his two suburban Chicago houses and moving to Bulgaria with his wife Dec. 27, even though he doesn't speak the language.
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But Joshua Hoyt, executive director of the Illinois Coalition for Immigrant and Refugee Rights, said the economy makes it imperative to address the situation.
"In a time of economic crisis, it's important to prevent unscrupulous employers from pulling down wages by hiring undocumented workers," he said. "The deportation-only strategy has the effect of destroying families, including the families of many U.S. citizens. If you believe the family is the basic social unit, then that sacred unit should be preserved, and it should not be an ideological or partisan issue."
Preservation of the family is an issue on which seculars and people of faith should be able to find common ground. It is a matter of human rights as it is a matter of basic values. Will Obama listen? Will Congress?
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I am the daughter of an immigrant, but my mother came to the United States legaly. I know friends that have worked hard to come to the United States legaly and spent many years preparing to do so. There are several issues that concern me when it comes to immigration. One is that people who come here without legaly doing so start off with a disrespect for the laws of the United States or an attitude that laws can be broken if it is convenient to do so. The other thing that concerns me is abuse of a system that is set up to work fairly for its citizens and for those who respect the laws. When this breaks down the system breaks down and it creates hardships for those who need help and have come to it legaly and through years of contributing and participating. An example is the law for children born in the United States. Abuse is when a woman comes into the United States illegaly and quickly has a baby as a way to tie herself to staying. A baby born in a hospital cost thousands of dollars, a cost that many times is paid by the community, if the parents can not pay. Our hospital costs become weighed down as well as our schools and everyone suffers.
The other issue is that comming to the United States should not be the only answer. Citizens of other countries need to work at helping better their countries by using the Latin Communities in the United States and Latino Organizations for changing governments, working conditions and education systems in all of South America. It is time that Latinos stopped looking to the United States as a life boat and start fighting to empower their countries from within.
Posted by fran coya on 11/18/2008 @ 12:09AM PT
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I agree that migration cannot possibly solve the problems of developing countries. Latin American governments should fight corruption and privilege in their own countries, but the U.S. shouldn't stand in their way when they try to do so.
As to your other points, I'd just say that the immigration laws are changing all the time, and in general it was much easier to immigrate legally to the U.S. before 1924 or between 1965 and 1997 than it was after the 1924 national quota laws or Bill Clinton's "deport them all" laws. More on that here: http://immigration.change.org/blog/view/a_history_of_immigration_to_the_us
Also, for many people, legal immigration is simply not an option. http://www.citizenorange.com/orange/2008/03/there-is-no-line.html
When it comes to respecting the laws, we would expect the government in charge of enforcing the laws to also obey the law, but we would be disappointed. http://immigration.change.org/blog/view/what_part_of_illegal_dont_you_understand_-_dhs_breaks_the_law_again
Posted by Dave Bennion on 11/18/2008 @ 09:52PM PT
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No matter how sympathetic one might be to an undocumented person or to the difficulty encountered by a family containing one or more undocumented person, the bottom line is whether or not someone should be rewarded for flouting the laws of the United States. It isn't as if an undocumented person is unaware that they are breaking the law. They are fully aware or they would not take pains to attempt to use false identification, sneak across borders under cover of night, pay smugglers to get them over the border, etc.
If United States Immigration laws need altering, there are ways to accomplish that. However, knee jerk stories intended to raise sympathy for people who have knowingly and deliberately sought to circumvent the existing immigration laws do little but tell both undocumented persons as well as every legal citizen of this nation that breaking the laws of this country is acceptable.
The burden for these undocumented persons for schooling, medical care, etc. does not fall on their countries of origin and, in far too many instances, does not even fall on the undocumented person. It falls on the already overburdened taxpayers.
It matters not whether the undocumented person is rich or poor, is from Latin America, Asia, Europe, Africa, South America, Canada or the moon. Attempting to place the blame on the laws of the United States, on the actions of the United States government, whether justified or not, is not going to make these undocumented persons anything other than what they are. That is, persons who have already shown that their respect for this nation and the laws of this nation is not among their priorities. Their personal agenda takes precedence over obeying the laws of the United States.
We are a nation of law. Freedom does not mean free to ignore the law.
Posted by Cynthia W on 11/18/2008 @ 10:35PM PT
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I feel that our goverment should be tougher on immigration. illegals should have no rights to stay in our country and use our resourses. I live in California and there is alot of illegals in our state and that is why we are always running out of money. They don't pay into our system but yet they're the ones that use up all of our resoures and we get stuck paying the bill. I agree that illegals need to be deported to there own country. How could we fight for there rights to stay when most americans didn't care how the people of Iraq were being treat by their President.
Posted by R C on 11/25/2008 @ 08:55PM PT
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Ok, I agree that the borders be secured.. only because people from other non-border countries are coming to the USA through the borders. I think all people who have a family member who is a U.S. citizen or who is not a U.S. citizen but the U.S. is all they know should never have to be put through going to a country they don't know. That is just wrong to make someone like me choose to leave my family in the U.S. to keep my own little family together. Deporting people who are already in the USA is not going to do anything except waste peoples money. You know why, those same people just come right back and then the U.S. pays to deport them or worse yet, they pay to jail these individuals. It obviously doesn't work so people need to start thinking OUTSIDE the box and move onto something that works for everyone. And as for the not paying into the system that is such bull, "illegals" working under the table.. they do not, however when my husband was there working, he did pay taxes and such and you know what.. he couldn't file his taxes due to his illegal status. SO, unless a certain thing pertains to EVERYONE of the "illegals" it should not be said. And why don't we focus on going to Mexico instead of Iraq and helping the Mexicans have a better country to live in so that it's not necessary for them to go to another country just to make more than $80 a week.. at a "good" job. Also, for the people such as Daniella (mentioned in the DREAM post) who where in the U.S. illegally and want to fix things for themselves and are denied.. what does that say about the USA? We give rapists, murders, drug dealers, etc. second, third, sometimes fourth chances.. why not someone who wants to fix the status?
Posted by Jessica Carmona on 12/12/2008 @ 12:26PM PT
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Laws are changed so rapidly nowadays, it's not fair to ASSUME that everyone got the memo. The laws changed drastically in 1996 and since then, not even ICE knows the current legislation. To solve the problem, thousands of immigrants are herded under the broad blanket of deportation. If you want ICE to be taken seriously, have them get their act together. Have them put into effect something that works.... that solves the problem... instead of being a double edged sword. THEN, when things are fair again, maybe those illegals can come out of hiding and make things legal. As for damn CAlifornians, I am from California.... and it's not the damn Mexicans. Go after the Chinese.... who come in on the BOATLOADS!!! (considering that ports import more than the borders do. only 10% are checked). Check our own immigration policies or see where our aid goes. There are certainly countries, especially in the Middle East, that we FAVOR immigrating and PAY for their education. Personally, I feel that all of you that put out broad immigration statements about sending the Mexicans back to their own damn country etc.... still believe that all you need to do is marry a citizen and you're set, and that by filling out paperwork, you should be here in a year. As for welfare recipients.... only 13% are immigrants... and that means, legal or not.... guess who's taking all that money? OTHER races, black white..... AND alot of immigrants DO pay taxes using a TIN#, which isn't connected to INS and assures them safety while contributing to our society.
Posted by Melissa R on 02/03/2009 @ 05:31PM PT
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Sorry, didn't finish filling out the sentence~
"Personally, I feel that all of you that put out broad immigration statements about sending the Mexicans back to their own damn country , that still believe that all you need to do is marry a citizen and you're set, and that by filling out paperwork, you should be here in a year, have little knowledge about the internal workings of immigration and what it DOES do for our economy. After you study macroeconomics and see the impact that these immigrants, illegal or not, have on communities large and small, I think you might have a different opinion.
Posted by Melissa R on 02/03/2009 @ 05:44PM PT
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I like how you all can tout 'nation of laws' when it comes to immigration but yet you go ahead and commit all types of
outrageous law breaking like stealing, child abuse and all kinds
of horrendous crimes. I'm not saying it's ok to come here
that way, but most times it's not out of disregard of the law but out of sheer desperation, or family crisis. A lot of people who are fist thumping against these people would die of shame if they were to find out the truth about how their grandparents came here so that they could be born here, and be a little more human to the plight of these people. Not all undocumented are hispanic or black. People would be shocked to see how many undocumented whites are here, blond and blue and all. Not all should be 'rewarded' as you call it. Any man/woman who come into another man's country and commit horrendous crimes and cause problems should be punished. But most just want to be with their families and build lives and become a piece of the fabric of the huge quilt of america.
Posted by maureen shims on 04/14/2009 @ 08:36PM PT
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